Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Money trouble-Baby14

Ally grew up into a fine young lady! She plans on going into design and I think she will do nothing but good things in that field.
Here are my 3 happy go lucky kids babies 10-12. They are my second set of triplets and the older two look more like their dad than me I LOVE IT! Little Jenna on the other hand (as of now) looks more like me.
Kathleen and Kestell where joking around with each other and I was happy to see them fighting less and less.
I was invited to a grill tournament and I needed to make 5 servings of hot dogs. I was on to plate #3 when more people started showing up.
I had to wait on this skinny little thing to finish up her's till I could start on my 4th plate but she took to long and I lost the challenge DARN I could have really used that money.
I ran into Zaiden and Zeke (babies 2 and 3) while there and wanted to talk to Zaiden. 
Violet- Zaiden how are you and Rosanna doing?
Zaiden- Things are going as well as expected. Rosanna is thinking of waiting a little while before we try for another baby but I have a feeling it might happen sooner than later.
We hugged and in that moment I knew that they would be ok after the loss of their first born. Its something that no parent should ever have to go threw. 
I started to get ready for bed when Ally came in to say "See you later mom." I didn't like the words good bye and she knew that. I was so excited to see her move on but still a part of me wants all my children to stay young and at home forever. 
Kestell grew up with a good mix of her father and I. She grew up with the snob trait and this did not surprise me one bit. She's very much a perfectionist and likes things a certain way. I feel bad for the son in law who gets this packaged deal there are NO RETURNS lol!
Kathleen lightened her hair a little but still kept her natural brown hair. She has her beautiful green eyes here but in future pictures she will have a different eye color. While at the eye doctor she was told she needed glasses and as a teenager that's not cool (in her eyes) so I agreed to let her get contacts and then SHE decided to get color contacts. 
Both Kathleen and Kestell were more than happy to help the triplets learn skills so that they could age up well. I couldn't believe they would be children soon time flies and speaking of time flying by I was now needing to find a dad for baby 14 before Kathleen and Kestell where moved out!.
I made sure to tell all my kids NOT TO PLAY WITH FIRE! Its something that is near and dear to my heart after the whole birthday fiasco we went threw. I didn't really want the kids to be scared of fire I just wanted them to be safe around it.
Here is a little secret- When Oliver was born I gave him a different name but after bringing him home I realized that it was another J name and I didn't want his name to be confused with the triplets SO I had to run to city hall and change his name to Oliver. I do plan to use his original name for a future baby so I will still have baby with that name at some point in time!
I was at City Hall when Della Wriner to tell me about the arrival of her triplets with Harry Potter! I must say I got a little chuckle out of this since well its Harry Potter!
I was not paying attention to what was going on around me and was approached by a guy by the name of Devid. I was was pretty sure I knew what he wanted but figured I could ask anyway.
Devid- WOW I know you... Your the writer to the book series " I'm Just A Girl". I LOVE your books! your... your....
I cut off his stuttering but adding "Yes, I'm Violet Jane Newbie the author of the book series I'm Just A Girl." I'm so glad to have a fan club I like being known for more than just my baby making.
Devid-Well if you need a dad I'm more than happy to help you out. I'm just a HUGE fan of your books. I'm not a girl or anything I just like how you really are a regular girl who happens to have, how many kids is it now?
I have 13 kids and hoping to have baby 14 with a handsome guy who LOVES my books ;)
Wow mom you really know how to turn on the charm! I was not ready to run into Zeke while out and about. Oh... wow... Hi Zeke how is everything going for you?
Everything is good mom. I just wanted to tell you I love you and miss you that's all, Zeke said while giving me a hug. It was truly music to my hears because well he's still a mommy's boy and thats just precious to me when your grown son can tell you he loves you and misses you IN PUBLIC! It truly is a HUGE proud mommy moment.
Zeke- Good luck mom with the future little ones! I'm happy to hear that Oliver is home and doing well.
Violet- Yes I was so happy that everything went smooth it was my first hospital birth by the way.
I invited  Devid over and I was kind of surprised he really only had one thing on his mind. I'm not liking the men who just want to JUMP into action. Where are all the nice boys?
I do want to go over a few things first if you don't mind. The last guy I was with seemed to forget to tell me he was engaged so are you in a relationship at this time? If so I don't mind being friends my I'm not about to ask you to have an affair to just help me with something thats not worth loosing a girlfriend, fiancĂ©, or wife.
Devid- Nope nothing like that! I'm single and happy but I truly don't mind having a little one running around who calls me dad. I'm willing to come over and hang out with the little one but I'm not sure I'm willing to ever settle down with someone just yet. I mean come on I have allot of life to live.
"I don't think I have anymore questions so do you want to eat, have a drink, or get busy?" I asked Devid.
he replied much the way I thought he would. "I'm not one to mess around and I have to be at work in 3 hours so hopefully this can be kinda quick."
We started to kiss and it all ended with...
The sound of baby has been made music. I was happy to have baby 14 and had several names I wanted to use but of course I still have many more pregnancy's to use the names I like so I figured when the baby is born the name will come to me. 
Kathleen- Geeze mom you really have got to start working more we hardly had enough for these bills. I'm really worried about how things are going to go once Kestell and I are out of the house.
Violet- Kathleen everything will be fine I just have to figure a few things out I think that your over reacting I had enough for bills and thats what's important.
I'm not fooling anyone funds are low and well I'm now going to have to figure out what I need to do to make ends meet. I have a feeling that I might be having to get a more constant job than just a few things here and there. I'm so flustered and I need help. This whole baby challenge is more than just the challenge of raising all these children but its also the challenge of having what you need vs what you want.
Kestell decided she wanted to race Kathleen on who could gather up laundry the fastest. Kestell already had a bag full and was running threw the hall to get some more. "Kestell dear there are some clothes in my bedroom if you want to get them." I told her knowing that if she didn't win she would wine until the cow came home.
"Mom don't help her, thats not fair I have nothing yet and she has WAY MORE," Kathleen added while running down the hall the opposite way. "Hey Kathleen there is a load in the washer does that count on your laundry doing?" I added as she ran past me. "THANKS MOM!" Kathleen then ran into the bathroom to finish the load I started.
I got the urge to dance and so well I did. It was so much fun to just cut loose and get down. Its funny because as I danced the girls where still running around it was quite funny and we even have a video of it I just have to find the file I saved it to. Don't you just love computers?
I then asked Kathleen if she could please keep an eye on the kids so I could go downtown and sell a few of my old books and the vegetables I harvested from the garden.
"Mom are you kidding me? I help out all the time isn't it Kestell's turn yet?" Kathleen responded to my request. 
"Kathleen you are so much more responsible than your sister and well you are honestly more aware of how badly we need the money. I can wait till tomorrow but we could loose the house is that what you want?" I told her the honest truth not trying to make her feel bad but let her know just how serious this is.
Kathleen then realized how serious I was. "LOOSE THE HOUSE? Is it really that bad?" Kathleen asked just about as seriously as any teenager could.
I then explained to her how I'm working hard in several different ways on how to save up money so we don't loose the house but I need her to help. There is no reason why I need to hire a baby sitter when I have 2 teenagers in the house who can hold down the fort till I got back.
Kathleen chose to help out and not make a big fuss when I ask her to help out. It let me know just how ready she is to be a young adult. I see her being a fine business woman or maybe even a teacher. I don't know yet but I'm sure she will be brilliant no matter what she does.
Kathleen went strait into help mode and picked Jenna up to finish teaching her to walk. I'm so happy that Kathleen is my daughter I couldn't have asked for a better person to have in the house at this difficult time.
I made a little over $200 making my household funds a grand total of $474! Its not much but I plan to work hard on my garden and hopefully get my painting skills up so I can make more money painting.
I got home and realized it was time for my 3 toddlers to grow up. I love watching them grow but hate knowing that I'm going to have less time with them at home. Joey was first in line to grow up but I wasn't able to call Effron because it was to late at night.
Joey grew up and like I figured out when he was a toddler he got his dad's smile, nose, and face shape. He has my green eyes and his great grandma Mags hair. I think hes very handsome even with his long nose!
Here is Jordyn and well she has several features from my side of the family! But her pretty smile and nose are from her daddy. 

Jenna love's to go swimming so she wanted her picture taken in her new swim suite isn't it cute! She also had her daddy's smile and face shape but not the nose only Jordyn and Joey got their daddy's nose.
I was feeling sick and thats a good thing to have since I'm pregnant and all. I had a fun surprise for Joey, Jordyn, Jenna, and baby Oliver. We where going to go visit Zara's family! I haven't seen my little grandson in a little while and I'm sure he's gotten bigger.
I quickly gave Oliver a bottle because he was well he was hungry. I wanted to wait till we got to Zara's but he wouldn't stop fussing so I got him fed and we were off.
On the trip to Zara's house the kids kept asking me how many kids I had and I told them 13. I didn't want to confuse them with me being pregnant and not showing yet. They asked what number Zara was and I was very proud to say that she was baby #1. She's the beginning of this whole thing and I LOVE that she was my first born as well as I'm happy I have all my kids in the order they come.
The visit was quite quick but I was very happy to see Zara's family. Herman truly did get his looks from his mom. Even though his dad is dark skin and has dark hair Herman managed to be born with blond hair and green eyes. I took this family photo because well I wanted one. I'm the mom and grandma I need bragging rights.
We had to leave sooner than we wanted because the kids where getting hungry and I had several things to get one. One was my precious garden needed some TLC so I made sure to give it as much as it needed I even revived some plants. I love being a green thumb it makes gardening even that much more fun.
Here is Kathleen with her color contacts if you ask me I like her green eyes better but teens these days you can't always win. She is a very smart student and could have grown up early but she chose to wait till after the baby was born and her sister was ready. Kathleen is most definitely an amazing girl and she is a 1 in a million. I love both Kestell and Kathleen equally as I do all my children BUT Kathleen has proven herself a strong and interdependent woman and that more than I can say about Kestell. 
You can almost always guarantee to find Kestell playing video games or messing around. She has a boyfriend too but I have yet to meet him. I don't understand how she can be so different from her sister but I think its a good thing and a bad thing. I just wish she cared more about herself and others. 
Morning sickness!!! That must mean that Baby 14 is most definitely on its way. I sometimes feel like I'm dreaming when I hear the lullaby and that its not real I'm not REALLY having a baby its just the kids toys making that sound. I love bringing new life into the world and this is not a fun part of it but definitely worth it.
I took a shower and got cleaned up and heard Kestell get upset over something. I went downstairs to find the television was broken. I hate fixing things when I'm pregnant but I was very careful and made fixed it with out a scratch. I think Kestell should work on her handy skills then next time SHE can fix it.
   Then poor Joey was yelling for me and saying "Mom someone plugged to TOILET." So I got that unplugged as well. Its moments like these when things break and fixed when I wish I was married to one man and having children with just him. He would be working a full time job and I would raise the kids. When things would break he would fix them. I seriously think this is my last baby and I'm DONE with the challenge.
I checked on sweet Oliver and he was doing just fine! I was so happy he was a simple baby and liked when his sister's (mainly Kathleen) took care of him as well as myself. 
ARE YOU KIDDING ME. This is going to make me cry another thing broken in this stupid house with no money and a bunch of kids who are beyond awesome but I NEED MONEY! I can't afford to live with all this cheep stuff. 
I stopped complaining long enough to fix it but was wasn't happy about it. But this all comes with the challenge.
I have a very tiny baby bump at this point in time. It is hard to see but its definitely there. I'm not finding out the gender this time I figured I would leave it a surprise.
Jordyn came up to me and asked to feel my belly. I was more than happy to let her. I think she has an inner mommy in her and she's going to be a wonderful mom someday. She also told me how much she hated the washer too. That made me feel happier.
A mommy daughter moment captured in time forever. I love my beautiful Jordyn and hope that people don't judge her by the way she looks but love her for the person she is.
The next morning I went to go check up on Oliver and see how he was doing and I about fell over. Kestell was feeding him his morning bottle. She was sincerely happy about it too I watched for a moment and then left the room I wasn't about to spoil such a beautiful moment between siblings.
 I picked up Oliver and just looked at him. 
Violet speaking to Oliver- Ok little man its time to learn some FUN STUFF! Your going to be walking and talking in no time. I even bet you will be no longer wetting your diapers too.
I felt like it was far to soon but I knew it was time he needed to grow up.
Baby bump 2 here it is just popping out a little bit more! I love being pregnant its such an amazing feeling to know that you are/have brought new life into the world.
Derik would be proud his son is a spitting image of him, and Oliver is the first of all my kids to have their dad's eyes. I wish Derik was here but I know that his fiancĂ© wants him to have nothing to do with his son. I'm sad about that but what can you do. I know that she is hurt by him cheating and had I known I would have never agreed to having a baby with him. But Oliver is a great kid and I'm SO HAPPY I had him.
 Here are Oliver's first steps. He took to it right away I wonder if its because he has so many older siblings walking around him that he figured out all the "cool kids" are doing it.
It was just the two of us home that day because all the other kids where in school I enjoy getting one on one time with my children separately and it doesn't happen very often. 
Here is a BIGGER baby bump with baby #14!
I love you little one and I hope to see you soon BUT not to soon.
I wasn't snooping honest I was just picking up some of Kestell's things and found this picture. This is her boyfriend! I still don't know his name but I hope she brings him home to meet me I would love to see who is keeping my daughter out of trouble.
Ally and Jordyn were always very close and they continue to be close to this day. I think its neat that they are such good friends. They have even talked about moving in together when Jordyn is old enough. Those two girls together is going to = allot of fun and adventure.
Derik called wondering what Oliver was up to. I was happy to report that i was doing a fine job raising him and he was walking and talking already. He was half way potty trained and has level 4 logic. I was wanting to get off the phone with him because I was expecting 7 guest very soon.
Here we are the baby will be here any time now!
I got a few things cleaned up such as Oliver's little droppings and then got ready for my important visitors.
When I came out of the bathroom to my surprise there was and unexpected but ALWAYS welcomed visitor. Does he look familiar.... This is Herman my grandson! He came hope with Jenna from school today.
We talked for a little while and I was so happy to hear all the fun things he was going at home and at school. He is such a sweet boy and reminds me so much of Zara (his mom).
The important guests where to have all my kids together and TRY to get a group picture but this little one was mad it was missing out on all the fun so it said LET ME OUT.
The labor was shorter and faster than any of my others I wasn't complaining I just couldn't wait to see if it was a boy or girl.
MY LITTLE GUY WAS HERE Landon Devid Newbie! 
SIDE NOTE: He was born with a white hands and half of his body was white. I came to realize when I downloaded a lot from the Sims website. It had these boots that where on every age of Sim including babies. I realized how bad the problem was when I found the evil doll YIKES. I deleted all the bad stuff and I'm now bad CC free. 
Here is my little Landon bad cc free and happy as can be! I'm so glad that he is healthy and that I don't have to worry about that happening again! 
Here we are :) I sadly didn't get a picture of me with all 14 kids but hey maybe someday I will. 


Thank you for reading and I hope you enjoyed this chapter/entry of the story. I'm also sorry that I fell victim of the bad cc and evil doll club. I was quite angry to find out that Violet and Ally had it on the exchange. I have deleted both infected sims and I re uploaded Violet and uploaded her to my game and she was bad cc and evil doll clean. I hope that every on understands this was an accident and not intended I love sims and would never do anything on purpose to hurt your game. I wanted to thank Della Wriner for all her amazing help! She's a great friend and I'm lucky to have her on my team :) Thank you everyone!