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 Thank you thewood31 for gifting me


these items off my wish list. I can't wait


to see Wisdom wearing the Bow Dress, and


decorate her room with the critter comforts!












If you are new to my blog I would first like to say THANK YOU for taking the time to read my sims stories. I'm currently blogging about a sim who just took on the 101 baby challenge and is now living life after the challenge. She is engaged to her boyfriend and together they have a little girl Wisdom. Violet found out that she had a brain tumor and had it removed promptly after completing her challenge. Wish her strength back and wedding in 2 months Violet is enjoying life after the challenge.

 

Violet and Ashby arrived back at the house after a fun filled afternoon of pampering, dress  shopping, and even stopped by the e-store to purchase a few things. Violet knew that Wisdom's  toddler days would soon be over and with help from a good friend (Lexi) she was able to  purchase the bedding set that she had pictured Wisdom having.


Still slightly annoyed by A.J.'s attitude towards her she was perfectly fine having Adabelle and  Ashby stay the night and have A.J. on the couch. "You know you have a theme now and so the  venue will be easier to find/build knowing that there is a color pallet and everything." Ashby  said pulling into Violet's driveway. "Yes, I know... I just think having A.J. help me build a venue  will assure its like what I've been picturing.  Violet then turned to see A.J. outside (in his p.j.'s) playing with Wisdom. She saw him in a new light. Ever since coming home from the hospital Violet has been all hands on deck feeling that she missed out on so much with Wisdom. But with all of that she forgot that A.J. had been doing everything for the period of time Violet couldn't. The late night feedings, every diaper changed, baths, and just telling her all about her mommy who missed her so much. Violet started to think maybe more kids would be nice.

Violet and Ashby where hungry and found that dinner time was quickly approaching the house. Violet was not in the fancy meal mood so mac and cheese, with a fresh salad would be pretty much it for today. Ashby got started on her famous Fresh Broccoli Salad. They could heard Adabelle and Wisdom talking to their "friends" in the living room. Wisdom named her friend aka IT Lilly while Adabelle called her's Boy. Violet and Ashby called in and asked if the four of them wanted a snack before dinner and the girls nodded like a bobble head. Violet cut a few extra pieces of cheese and Ashby gave them each a piece of broccoli. The girls smiled and even shared with their IT's.


Ashby put the salad in the fridge waiting for the mac and cheese to finish when Asher called her into the living room. Rolling her vampire eyes she looked at Violet and said "save me!" the two girls giggled and Ashby went to meet her husband for what ever it was he needed her for.

Asher was quite polite in telling Ashby that he loved her and that he had no right to try to make her feel like having more kids if that was truly what she didn't want. Ashby loved his gesture but knew that this would have to be farther discussed at home.  But in the mean time the flowers where beautiful and the two where able to enjoy the rest of their night at Violet's and A.J.'s house. "Ashby, I was talking to A.J. and he would like to have a romantic picnic just for him and Vi tonight. So we can have the same in here with the girls is that ok?" Ashby agreed that Vi and A.J. needed some time together.

A.J. escorted Violet outside to a fire pit. He had two chairs set up but Violet wanted to be stubborn and get her own chair. "Barbie I was out of line before. You have been through so much and to feel pressured by me to have a baby makes me no better than other men you have been with. I don't look at you as a challenge mom and I never have. You are the woman of my dreams with or without 101 kids. I'm blessed to have had Wisdom and if she is our only child together. I can live happily ever after." Violet smiled and knew that A.J.'s feelings and words came straight from his heart. She loved the fact he could be open about his feelings even if it took a fight for him to see things from her point of view. But that's allot of what marriage is about. You are constantly learning about the other person.

Feeling famished  Violet suggested they lay out the blanket and eat. A.J. wasn't one to argue after they both heard his stomach growl.  He made ham and cheese sandwiches with side dishes of pasta salad, water melon, and wine coolers as a beverage. The two where feeling better and Violet enjoyed the no pressure feeling they had once again. Violet opened up about idea for the venue they are going to build together and even discuss the theme she came up with. "I know we planned to build a house on the lot with the water fall, but I think that would be a great place for the wedding venue. We could build a reception hall and wedding right there over looking the waterfall. We own the lot we just need to get a building permit and go to town." A.J. was exited about the idea and was quick to add his opinion on shape, and layout. Violet wanted a few details that the church had that her parents where married in. She didn't want it to be wasted space after the wedding so they chose to turn it into a community lot. Violet then trailed into the idea of kids. A.J. about chocked on his sandwich when Violet brought the subject up. "Wisdom is a great girl and the house feels so empty without new kids coming in constantly. I don't want to be pregnant on the wedding day because my dress is..." A.J. stopped Violet and but humming a song loudly and plugging his ears. He didn't want ANY details about the dress.

Violet guided his hands down and continued " But if we wanted to try from now till a week before the wedding I'm ok with that." A.J. hesitated for a moment and then asked, "So Wisdom won't be an only child? and you want this because you want this not just because I want this?" Violet nodded, "I want this, you are a great dad and you are amazing to me. I couldn't ask for a better man to have asked me to marry him." Violet leaned over to kiss A.J. they then realized paparazzi was beginning to surround them and so they headed inside to begin trying for a baby.

 

Before meeting A.J. in the bedroom Violet peaked in on her little girl. Looking at her tiny finger, toes, and piggy tails she started to get excited about more kids. The house wasn't ready for a new baby with it only being 2 bedrooms so Violet began thinking about where they could add a hallway to build a nursery. After Ashby, Asher, and Adabelle left Violet and A.J. went on with their plan hoping to have a baby soon!

A new furniture shop opened so Violet and A.J. decided to check it out. They where not 100% sure on wanting to buy anything but it never hurt to look. Violet found a new couch and love seat set that she feel in love with immediately. A.J. wanted to look around to a few things that where on sale. They where having a sale on lawn furniture and even said they had chairs for rent to accommodate the upcoming wedding. This surprised A.J. and Violet since they had not told anyone at the store about the wedding. The sales girl pulled out a magazine and went into gossip mode. " You two made the cover of Challenge Mother's Monthly. It covers all the A list local events and celebrities."

Headlines are hard to see on this copy so I will type them here:


Baby 101! Violet's long term boyfriend becomes father of her final child....Pg.82
Violet Newbie Completes her challenge! Read exclusive interviews from Violet and her children.... Pg.101
On to a New Challenge! After finishing her Challenge Violet takes on a new challenge of planning her wedding...Pg.67
Read interview with Ashley Lemi as his support of Violet's challenge...Pg.14
Fighting BACK! Vioelt postpones her brain tumor surgery to complete her challenge... Pg.44

A.J. got excited when he saw a race car chair and base ball glove chair. "Well dear we are on a budget since we have a wedding coming up soon. I just don't see how we have room for these either." A.J. leaned back and said "Well a guy can dream right?" Violet nodded and sat down is a cute chair she pictured in the new baby's room.

 

Violet left after getting a disturbing phone call from the bridal boutique. There was an accident while making Violet's dress and its going to delay when she can pick it up. They said it should be ready at the end of August. Violet tried to stay calm about the whole thing but as well all know her wedding is in the middle of August not the end. A.J. purchased the love seat and then talked to the sales woman if she knew of any places that sold wedding gifts for the future bride. He wanted to buy something for Violet but wasn't sure what to get. And of course after popping her enormous bubble gum bubble she handed him a magazine with nighties and sexy outfits in it. She gave him a wink and A.J. walked away. This wasn't what he had in mind but maybe it could give him a few ideas.

A.J. walked in to a surprising sight. Asher and Violet playing around on the couch. Yes, they where playing a video game but as A.J. watched Asher would lean over and tickle Violet to get her to loose concentration or lean over her to block her view. A.J. knew that Asher and Violet had been friends for a long time but he couldn't help but think Asher very well could be flirting with Violet. Trying to make the "flirting" stop A.J. cleared his throat and asked "Where is your wife Ashby?" Asher jumped and Violet looked up at A.J. as if thinking what kind of question is that? "She is out shopping, and Violet invited me over to have a play date with Adabelle. I came over and we started to play our favorite video game." He said trying to focus on his game. Violet added, "You can get the jealousy out of your tone dear. Asher and I are friends you should trust us."  A.J. left the room but continued to keep a close eye on the two. "I'm not jealous" he mumbled to himself.  After Violet having so many babies with other guys A.J. can't help but feel a little insecure when she's with other guys. This is something he's been working on.

Violet excused herself and walked over to A.J. to find him on the phone. "Hi Leiah, yes I'm excited to help your challenge out. I have a few requests in front of you but I'm happy to get started. Thanks for asking me.... yep, ok bye for now!" A.J. hung up and let out and excited YES! Violet then popped in "So Leiah would like you to build her a house? That's wonderful news. We right now have Ashby, and Ashley who have also requested houses. Can we have all 3 done this month?" Violet asked getting her phone out to check her schedule. "Violet we are a great team and of course we can do this. Just keep focused on being Mrs. Lemi and leave the rest to me." he said pulling Violet closer.

"Barbie, I'm not jealous just... ok well I've had to share you with other guys before I'm just happy we are on our way to being married. With a family of our own. Speaking of family any signs of being pregnant yet?" A.J. asked going to feel her belly. "No, A.J. we aren't and you know it took us a few tries with Wisdom so I'm guessing it will take a few tries to conceive this one as well. I bet we will have 2 little ones at our wedding." Violet said with a smile.

Violet and A.J. started getting plans in order knowing Wisdom had 2 more days till she would be a child. The time has flown by and this hasn't been easy on Violet. She feels like there is still so much she wants to do with Wisdom before she's off to school, hanging out with friends, and even finding a boy friend. The thought of Wisdom growing up was a bit much for Violet to handle.

Thank you for reading and for supporting my blog. I'm really enjoying this site and I'm happy you all came along for the switch. I will continue to use blogger until after the wedding. Then I might just do little posts on the challenge blog and mainly use Talkingsims!